When You Are Bullied, Do You React with Fear or Anger? A take on how countries might respond to the new U.S. tariffs, viewed through the lens of fear, anger, and shame.
Wasted Effort Is a Myth People can sometimes feel paralyzed by the need to follow an optimal or efficient path towards a goal. But progress is uncertain. By focusing on what we learn at each step, we can mitigate the feelings of anxiety that come with any uncertain endeavor.
Why Every Creator Needs a “Stock” in Their Portfolio (Part 2) Fulfillment in work requires a balance between the emotions of safety and excitement. We achieve this by building a portfolio of "bonds" and "stocks." From a place of safety, when the right opportunity presents itself, we can have the courage to go all-in on a home run opportunity.
Why Every Creator Needs a “Bond” in Their Portfolio (Part 1) People assume that we need to go all-in on creative projects to make them work. However, that turns creative projects into life-or-death situations that must work for us to survive. Adding a stable, low-risk project to our portfolio is a better way to manage risk.
Why We Fixate on the Wrong Problems People often mistake busywork for the important work that leads to real change. The important work is scary, especially because the initial feedback can be negative.
The Price of Playing a Real Game Losses are a natural consequence of playing any game with a difficulty level appropriate to us. The key to long-term success is distinguishing between temporary losses and permanently destructive losses. When we hold on through the former and cut the latter, we win in the long-term.
The Cost of Optionality "Keeping options open" is often times a disguise for avoidance and fear of commitment. If we never commit, we lose the chance to gain the compounding returns from choosing a course of action and sticking with it.
Where Is Your Pain Threshold? Success in markets (or in life) requires the willingness to accept the pain of loss, as well as the ability to endure pain over a long period of time. Ultimately, those who win in markets and in life are those who can sit with pain the longest.
The Case for External Validation Society tells us to generate confidence and self-worth internally, and to not rely on external validation. But external validation is like a price signal from the market--we may have an asset which is very valuable, but we have no idea of its worth without information from an external source.
When You Do Everything Right We can feel frustrated when we "do everything right" but don't get the result we want. This post unpacks the assumptions underneath "doing" "everything" "right."